Getting dressed up

I hate getting dressed up. The obvious reason is I'm fat and I don't like how the clothes fit on me. I always wear untucked baggy shirts unless I have to get dressed up or for work. I feel uncomfortable getting dressed up because I get discouraged when I find something in my closet and my belly looks like it is going explode the buttons off the shirt. The worst is when you look at something in your closet and say to yourself that shirt is big- it has to fit me and it then it doesn't.

Also when I do tuck in my shirt, My belly button sucks up my shirt and my fat life preserver shows even more. The belly button suck is when you belly button sucks in your shirt and it forms an indentation. It also will absorb sweat.

It is not that I don't want to look good and I enjoy dressing sloppy (sometimes it is more comfortable). I look forward to being able to wear a shirt, polo, t-shirt tucked in one day with out feeling self conscious. When that day comes you will get to see it.